Fred went to the gym today.  He was soaking wet when he was done.  He had a pretty hard day and he didn't trust as much as he has other days.  You can see the trust developing, but he has times when he looses it.  Then he goes to the cones and puts his feet on it.  That is his safety place.  He knows he was successful at that so he goes there.  He is just going to take a lot of time to become trusting of people.